What is High Conflict Co-Parenting? It is a term used to describe the situation in which two parents struggles to get along and cooperate for the benefit of their children. This is a difficult situation for everyone involved, as it can lead to increased stress and conflict between parents and their children, as well as … Read more
If our children are to approve of themselves, they must first see that we approve of ourselves.(Maya Angelou ‘Rainbow in the Cloud’ 2014) In my experience, one of the things that helps get me back on track when I am feeling I can do nothing ‘right’, is to remind myself that there are certain things … Read more
The decision to be part of someone’s life on a long-term basis is a monumental one. If the person you love has children, then making sure this decision is the right one for everyone involved is imperative. Here are 5 Essential Questions You Need to Ask Yourself before Jumping Off into Stepmother-Hood: 1. Can I … Read more
If you’re reading this, you are not the first family. You are likely the second family, the blended family. You may have found your way into the family unit in the same way I did; single, with no children of my own. Or perhaps you brought your own children from a previous relationship to the … Read more
Being on vacation for a week with my husband and stepdaughters, allowed me the chance to reflect on life. These opportunities allow us to regroup, relax, bond, and have some fun. My husband and I want our children to learn to unwind, embrace these moments, and appreciate spending time together having adventures as a family. … Read more
Anxiety is ever present in stepfamily life. Anxiety is defined as a feeling of nervousness or worry. It is normal, for tensions to arise in a stepfamily as everyone adjusts to a new family structure. It can be particularly difficult for the children, who may have difficulty understanding why they must now share their parents … Read more
Finding balance in stepfamily life can be a challenge, since they often face situations that can make it difficult to maintain harmony and keep all members feeling content. However, it is possible to create a successful, balanced stepfamily life with patience, understanding, and the right strategies. The first step to finding balance is to accept … Read more
As a stepparent, you may be familiar with the many challenges that come with being a part of a blended family. One of the most difficult parts of being a stepparent is negotiating the delicate balance between parenting and being a friend. It can be hard to find the right balance, and it can be … Read more
It seems that lately, I have heard a lot of stepmoms saying “I don’t use the word ‘step’ when talking about my stepkids”. I think there are two reasons for this. One is that there are some families and situations where a woman truly does see her stepchildren as her own – perhaps they have … Read more
We all know that being the stepparent is not an easy job, and many times they have some difficulties. The reality is that they are often treated differently in the family. They may not be given the same love and attention as the biological parent. This can be a difficult adjustment for someone who is used … Read more